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How To Win Friends & Influence People
By Dale Carnegie

This book has had an incredible impact on my life, transforming the way I approach relationships and communication. Previously, I struggled with understanding relationship dynamics, engaging in small talk, and lacked confidence when it came to sales and approaching people. However, after reading this book, I now feel much more comfortable and capable of interacting with anyone.


While some may argue that the concepts covered in this book are common sense, they were entirely new and eye-opening to me. I have gained invaluable knowledge on building strong relationships, effective communication, and boosting confidence in social situations. These skills have made a significant difference in both my personal and professional life.


Renowned by successful entrepreneurs and frequently featured on top 10 lists, this book may have a cheesy title, but I strongly encourage everyone to give it a chance. Its content holds true value and possesses the power to truly transform lives.


Here are a few quotes from the book that have deeply resonated with me:


“You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”


“Whenever you go outdoors, draw your chin in, carry your head high, and fill your lungs with utmost vigor. Embrace the sunshine, greet your friends with a smile, and infuse every handshake with warmth. Disregard fear of being misunderstood, and never waste a moment pondering your enemies. Hold firmly in your mind what you aspire to achieve, and without deviation, you shall move straight towards your goals. Focus on the magnificent things you wish to accomplish, and as the days glide by, you will unconsciously seize the opportunities needed for their realization.”


Additionally, I have extracted key principles from the book that I find crucial for enhancing communication and relationships:


– Refrain from criticizing, condemning, or complaining.

– Offer genuine and sincere appreciation.

– Smile while communicating through text, email, phone, and in-person interactions.

– Remember that a person’s name is the sweetest and most important sound to them.

– Be an attentive listener and encourage others to share about themselves.

– Speak in terms of the other person’s interests.

– Make others feel genuinely important.


In conclusion, I wholeheartedly recommend this book to anyone seeking to enhance their communication and relationship skills. It has been a life-changing experience for me, and I am confident that it can have a similar impact on others.

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